Hanna raised $130 for Canadian Diabetes Association and is saving for a brand new iPad.

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Way to go Hannah! Supporting Canadian Diabetes Association sounds like a very meaningful choice for you to support.

Happy, happy birthday!


Jonah – age 4, believes that NO tummy should be empty. He raised $182 for Blessings in a Backpack at his ECHOage birthday party!

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We can’t wait to see what you do for your 5th birthday – Jonah!  Happy, happy birthday!


Tassie raised $432.50 for Share Our Strength AND got an iPhone 6 Plus for her ECHOage birthday party.

Screen Shot 2015-02-09 at 12.12.21 PMSounds like you had a wonderful birthday, Tassie!  Congratulation for being such a young leader. Your contribution will mean so much to Share our Strength/No Kid Hungry.


Meet Brooke – Our Newest ECHOage Hero.

Screen Shot 2015-02-05 at 10.56.05 AMHappy, happy birthday Brooke!  You certainly are a young leader and a great example of how kids can make a big difference in this world! 


RAISING CHARITABLE CHILDREN

I was 8 years old when my Uncle Jeffrey lost his battle with Cystic Fibrosis. His life was cut short at age 27 but characterized by courage, determination and impressive accomplishments including graduating from Dentistry School.

After his passing, my parents became active in preserving his memory through a myriad of fundraising efforts. From radio-thons to walk-a-thons, holiday wrapping to auctions, so began my early exposure to loss and to opportunities for effecting change. Looking back, I now know that the role I played and the contributions I made even at that tender age were as impactful as those of the adults I was surrounded by.

Philanthropy is a big word and one usually reserved for the adult domain. We can call it many things to make it sounds more universal: giving back, helping others, repairing the world, playing a part, but ultimately philanthropy belongs to everyone, young and old.

And if our role as parents wasn’t broad enough already, “raising charitable children” is a key one to add to the list. There is so much our children can do to change the world and to secure their future that we should not underestimate the value of youth and philanthropy and the tremendous impact it can have on the ‘adults’ we are raising.

Why Should Children Be Taught Philanthropy?

In addition to helping those in need, evidence shows that getting children involved in philanthropy has positive effects for the child, their families and society. It might also be the key to helping your children be happier, smarter, and more successful! According to developmental psychologists, children who perform acts of kindness experience increased well-being, popularity, and acceptance among peers.  This leads to better classroom behaviour and higher academic achievement. Now what parent doesn’t like the sound of that?

How Do We Teach Children About Philanthropy?

One of my favourite examples comes from a grandmother of three who when asked what she wanted for her birthday, told her grandchildren to “do something for someone else, draw a picture of what you did, and then tell me the story.” That’s how it all starts, simple and close to home! Teaching children how to treat others and how to give of themselves is one of the most important things we may ever do as parents. A few, small, tangible ideas, put into action early on in life, can really set the stage for a more charitably spirited and rewarding future.

  1. Start Small

Baby steps lead the way to giant strides! Ask your kids to do something small and kind hearted. Make a card for a loved one stating 3 reasons why they are so special.

  1. Lead By Example

Giving starts first thing in the morning. I always feel good when I give what I can to help my child’s day start with a smile. Giving to them encourages giving to others.

  1. Make Giving Imaginative

Kids are motivated by fun. Suggest they go through their gently used clothes and include a special note or wish for the child who will receive them. Personalizing the process can make it feel special and have greater impact.

  1. Watch and Learn Together

There are many inspiring videos on the web about young leaders in action. Watch them together and explore the topic of giving. Ask your child to image being a “giving” star in their own video and how they would make the world a better place.

  1. Allowance is for Sharing

Encourage kids to donate a small portion of their allowance. This helps open up the dialogue about giving and establishes it as an important part of their life.

There are many wonderful ways to bring giving experiences into your life and those of your children. Volunteer together at a local food bank (check out my girls washing celery!), get involved in a fundraiser, host an ECHOage party and incorporate giving into a celebration or check out websites like mygivingmoment.ca for ideas on how Canadians give back in their communities.

What Do Children Take Away From Giving?

Whether individual or family-driven, children benefit big time from giving! They learn about worlds beyond their own experience. They learn about tolerance and empathy. They build confidence in research, public speaking, fundraising, organizational and entrepreneurial skills – which they’ll need even if they are planning a lemonade stand! It is through these early experiences that they can also start to define the changes they would like to see in the world. Last I checked more change-makers are what we need!

How Can We Balance Living and Giving When It Comes to Kids?

We all enjoy doing things for our children – buying them something special, taking them on fun outings, throwing a great birthday party. But at the same time, many of us fear that without some balance, children may grow up thinking only of themselves. How many times have we heard complaints or felt that children have too many things and don’t appreciate any of it?

All it takes is a small shift. Whether you have a little time or money or have a lot of both, you can absolutely make a difference in your child’s life by helping to instill cherished values, and possibly creating a new family tradition or two. There are endless approaches to raising charitable children. It is clear, however, that kicking this off at a young age and close to home will have positive flow on effects for the world in which these children live and give.

Bonnie Levine – ECHOage Ambassador

About Bonnie Levine

Creating opportunities to inspire her children to be charitable has been a constant and something Bonnie was exposed to at a young age. This interest continued through her work in the healthcare and pharmaceutical sectors in a variety of business and management capacities. Bonnie is thrilled to be able to leverage her business consulting and communications background to help launch ECHOage (www.echoage.com) across new Canadian markets and to play a role in fostering kindness and generosity among the next generation.

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*Family fundraising at the Light The Night walk in support of the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society of Canada.*


Twice Is So Nice For These Twin Brothers

For the past two years, Shane and Mason, have contributed funds to the Montreal Children’s Hospital Foundation from their ECHOage birthday parties!   These boys have both been on the receiving end of the exceptional care at the Montreal Children’s Hospital for surgeries at 5 weeks old and 4 years old respectively. Giving back to the hospital was something their parents felt the boys could really understand, even at such a young age.

For their 5th birthday, the boys had the chance to express their individuality with a ‘kid in a candy store’ kind of shopping experience.  Their mom, Jean, reports that they had an absolute ball with pretty much free reign at the toy store when shopping with their funds from ECHOage!

Shane and Mason, we are so proud to count you among our ECHOage heroes! 


 


Montreal Spotlight: Sister Support!

There is something so special about sisters! Made even more special when they support not only each other but so many families in need as these two sisters did for their 6th and 8th birthdays.  Jessica and Talia’s ECHOage party benefitted En Famille, an initiative affiliated with the Jewish General Hospital dedicated to offering professional support and resources for young families to help meet the daily needs of parents who have been diagnosed with cancer.

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The birthday celebration was a blast! The girls spent time with their friends at iSaute trampoline centre jumping for birthday joy! To make the celebration even sweeter, the girls chose to get new bicycles, just in time for spring! Their parents loved that in addition to receiving amazing new wheels, they understood that part of their birthday gift (close to $600!) was being used to help parents and kids going through really tough times.

ECHOage offered up the perfect mix of convenience, ease, speed, and lessons learned for these special sisters and their very appreciative working/pregnant mom!

We are so proud to count you among our ECHOage heroes! Happy birthday Jessica and Talia! You’ve got sister power!


Surviving Sixteen Years and Six Kids

I recently celebrated my 16th wedding anniversary to Daddy-o. When I say “celebrated,” I actually just mean that we both “remembered.” It has been a busy sixteen years and I’d be lying if I said we’ve actually remembered all of our anniversaries. Usually we are reminded of this special occasion when his mother calls to offer congratulations.

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People have asked how we’ve survived 16 years and six kids. I could say all the usual healthy relationship tips: don’t go to bed angry, appreciate each other, say “I love you”, make time for each other, communicate honestly and often, blah, blah, blah. All this marriage advice is useful and we probably do them for the most part.

What I really think has been useful is some of the advice that was given to me.

Before we were married, Daddy-o’s mother sat us down and said this: “Just so you know, there are not going to be hard days, hard weeks and hard months – there are going to be hard YEARS. If you can just work through them it will all be worth it.”

I also remember what my brother says: “If the grass is looking greener on the other side, try taking better care of your lawn.”

Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t actually think people should be miserable with their spouse for years, and certainly some people take very good care of their lawns and still can’t avoid those poisonous weeds. Ending a marriage can sometimes be the very best thing for a family. Only those in the marriage are qualified to make that call and decide how to fix a relationship. But, I think these messages have been good reminders to me that relationships were never meant to be easy all the time and that part of my responsibility is to work on it.

One thing I do know is that the guy who posted his dissatisfaction with his married sex life online last week should have kept this dissatisfaction to himself. I doubt it helped his marriage and I’m certain it won’t lead to him getting more action in the bedroom. So if nothing else, my relationship advice is DON’T DO WHAT THIS IDIOT DID.

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You’re welcome. You can thank me for saving your marriages henceforth.

What keeps your marriage/relationship going strong? Did you get any good dating advice that has helped your partnership?

 

Julie Cole – Founder Mabels Labels


Sticks and Stones -The Power of Words

Words are powerful. My dad was an English teacher and word junkie so we were always taught to use our words carefully. The lesson has stuck with me and I have found that in raising my kids, I’m careful about not using vocabulary words that I don’t like. There are certain words not in my personal dictionary, that I’m pretty sure they’ve never heard me use. The short list includes:

“Best friend”

I just don’t like this term and never have. It feels exclusive and it inevitably leads to annoying sentences like “I’m not your BEST FRIEND anymore” and “Sorry, but Jenny is already my BEST FRIEND”. I find the newer terms like “BFF” and “Bestie” far less annoying because they seem to be used more generally and don’t seem so serious. The term “best friend” feels like it should have a ring and commitment ceremony attached to it.

“Tomboy”

Just because a girl is sporty and adventurous does not make her like a boy. It makes her sporty and adventurous. These kinds of gender stereotypes have no place in my home (or society).

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“Fat” and “skinny”

As a general rule, I don’t speak about appearances in front of my kids. I specifically try to stay away from comments regarding body shape when describing how someone looks, and particularly these two very loaded words.

“Diet”

My kids have never heard me say this word and certainly not in the context of me going on one. My hope is that my daughters will never feel like they need to diet. I like to think that I will face most parental challenges with a certain level of comfort and confidence. I know the exception is eating disorders. I have three girls and if any of them were sticking their fingers down their throat, you would find me in a corner rocking in the fetal position. The thought of facing eating disorders horrifies me and my heart goes out to families raising girls and dealing with it.

“Waitress” and “Mailman”

My kids never hear me use gender when describing a job or career. Yep, this PC mama says, “Server” and “Mail Carrier”, to name just two.

“I hate you”

My kids have never heard me use this term nor has anyone else. I don’t think I’ve ever used this phrase. Words cannot be taken back, even when you are sorry you said them.

Do you have parenting tips on any words that you keep out of your personal dictionary? What words are on the “no say” list in your house? Do you hear any words that make you cringe or that you try not to use in front of your children?

Julie Cole – Founder Mabels Labels

 


Even 3 year olds can do amazing things.

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This year for his 3rd birthday, Ray did something really amazing! Not only did his ECHOage birthday gifts go towards a brand new set of bongos and day camp this summer but he supported the Montreal Children’s Hospital making a difference in the lives of so many children.

Ray’s drumming party with Rhythm Exchange was a total blast! Ray was in heaven and his friends loved the party.

Ray’s mom Liz loved the ease of using ECHOage: “I liked that Ray did not receive the typical haul of toys, it’s overwhelming and unnecessary. I love the ECHOage concept, I love the values, I love supporting the Children’s, I love that people didn’t have to shop or wrap gifts, I love what it teaches my kids, it really is a win, win, win, win!”

Ray, you are making some wonderful noise, on your drums and in your world. We can hear your message loud and clear: Kids can do amazing things!

Wishing you a wonderful birthday from everyone at ECHOage.com!